Tuesday, March 29, 2016

Getting settled in Groningen, the Brussels Tragedy and a Great Visit with the Andersens

We started our week with the regular third Sunday trip to Gouda for the fireside and sacrament meeting for the Young Single Adults in the area.  We left with a car full of our last belongings to be moved to Groningen.  We were blessed to have Paul Brandenberg with us from Gouda back to Groningen and he helped us move the belongings, including Sister Caldwell's keyboard up to the apartment.  It certainly made things go faster after a late night and a very long day.

On Monday May 21, the elders and sisters from Groningen met at our apartment to begin our P-Day activity together.  We ate breakfast burritos prepared by Sister Caldwell and then headed off to Leeuwarden province to visit the site of the first baptisms performed in the Netherlands.  The elders and sisters were happy to pull the weeds to keep the monument in good condition.  This was a tradition started by Elder Brent and Sister Suzanne Romig which we are happy to carry on.

Posing by the monument 
Starting the cleanup
Sister Duncan tossing the moss.
Sisters Duncan and Wilkinson
After visiting the monument, we stopped at a wooden shoe factory and the missionaries purchased souvenir shoes.




The Sisters went for the traditional.  26 Euros each
The Elders opted for the fancy souvenirs with personalization


On Tuesday, March 22, we were shocked to hear to the bombings in Brussels.  We had regular updates from Elder Rochow, the Australian Barrister serving at the Church EU liaison office.  From him, we learned of Elder Norby's injuries.  These are two great couples who have a big impact here in Europe.

We attended our first district class in the Groningen district.  Elders Crowson and Walker were well prepared and the instruction was impactful and helpful.  We did miss the two Elders from Leeuwarden.  It is certainly fun to see Elder Walker in action as a mature and polished leader since he started his time in the mission in the Leuven Ward with us.

On Thursday, March 24, we attended the special Easter service of the Apostolic Church.  They allowed the Groningen Ward to meet in their building while the Groningen building was being remodeled and the Church allowed them to meet in our building while their building is under renovation.  The Elders, Sisters, a couple of Young Single Adults (Jovos) and us attended.  We enjoyed the service and the members were very warm and friendly.  We also enjoyed the choir.  Since the Apostolic Church originated in Wales, it is not surprising that the choir tradition is alive and well.

On Friday, we returned to Belgium to prepare to welcome our friends, Mark, Laurie and Jacob Andersen.  They lived in our neighborhood in Kuwait and now live near Rigby, Idaho so they have remained more like family members than simply friends.  We also began some of the deep cleaning of the apartment to ensure that it is ready to welcome the Olivers.

Mark and Laurie arrived a little after 2:00 PM on Saturday.  We took them to our beloved chocolatier, Sjolaa so they could experience the best of Belgian chocolate.  We then walked into the center of Mechelen to show them the sights and let them visit Leonidas, their favorite Belgian chocolate company.  In true Middle East fashion, we ended our evening with a trip to the local kabob place, just around the corner.  It is run by a Catholic Syrian family.  They are nice people who prepare good food at a reasonable price.



On Sunday, March 28, we all headed off for Leuven for our last Church service in the Leuven Ward.  The Bishop asked us both to bear our testimonies and then presented us with a huge piece of chocolate with a picture of The Hague Temple on the white chocolate in the center.  After the services, the ward had prepared a lovely lunch and we enjoyed associating with the members we have come to love and admire so well.




In the afternoon, we headed off to the Waterloo battlefield.  They had opened a new underground museum last year to commemorate the 200th anniversary of the battle and it really added a lot to the visit.


In a few minutes we will greet the Olivers and start their orientation to Mechelen and Belgium.  We have enjoyed visiting with them over the last few weeks and are looking forward to seeing them in person.  We hope and pray that they will come to love this area as much as we have.


Saturday, March 19, 2016

Sister Missionaries, Ward Conference, Groningen Move

On Sunday, March 6, we attended our last fast and testimony meeting in the Leuven Ward.  It is hard to say goodbye to these members we now know so well.  Belgians are a bit reserved in the beginning, but they are warm hearted and we feel great love for and trust in the faithfulness of these wonderful members.

On Monday, March 7, we had all of the sisters in the Antwerpen Zone at our home.  Four of these sisters are going home this week and others go home soon.  They are great young ladies and we enjoyed their company.  They have certainly had a positive impact on the mission.  Sister Caldwell made a lovely brunch and the sisters got special permission to watch, "Once I was a Beehive."  They seemed to enjoy it and certainly enjoyed each other's company.  In true missionary fashion, they ended their preparation day activity right on time and got right to work.

On Tuesday, we had the last district class of this transfer.  This time, there were more changes than we have seen since we arrived about 10 months ago.  We all enjoyed working together during this transfer.

The Turnhout district 
We weren't always serious 
Our district leader, Elder Bieshesar presented each of us with a departing gift.  Sister Caldwell got a beautiful lei
Sister Caldwell collecting her kiss with the presentation of the lei.  Elder B returned this week to Surinam.
He has been a great leader and also served as a zone leader in Den Haag.
Immediately after district class, we returned to Mechelen to load up our car for the first trip to the Groningen apartment.  We had arranged to meet with Buddy and Beryl Gout on Wednesday and Thursday to get an orientation to the area and to the Young Single Adults (Jovos).  The Gouts have responsibility for the Young Single Adults in the entire area and have a long history of service in many capacities.  I was blessed to know Buddy's family when I served on my first mission here.

We arrived at about 8:00 PM in Groningen and unloaded the car and began sorting through the things already in the apartment to determine what we needed to tack back to Mechelen.  The Groningen apartment had additional items since another senior apartment had been closed previously.  The Mechelen apartment was new when we arrived, so we purchased a number of items, but other things were still needed.

On Wednesday, March 9 we began working on apartment repairs and made a trip to the nearby IKEA for repair parts and light bulbs.  While at IKEA, we found the Dutch solution to the lack of a driving license.  You can rent a special bicycle to cart your stuff home.


That evening we had dinner with the Gouts and met our beloved Elder Walker again.  Leuven was his first city in the mission and we enjoyed working together.  He is now our district leader in Groningen.  It was certainly a joyous reunion.


We headed back to Leuven on Friday and Sister Caldwell taught her piano students on Saturday morning.  Two sisters from the Relief Society presidency and the primary president were there cooking chili for the ward conference the next day.  There was a big group of kids there playing together and the weather was beautiful.  Bishop Dixon had folks plant bulbs last fall and they were also beginning to come up.

On Sunday, March 13, we held our ward conference.  We had a lovely talk by sister van Kerckhoven from the Relief Society presidency, followed by Bishop Dixon and President Buyse of the stake presidency.  Sister Caldwell and Sister De Coninck (the ward Primary president) sang a lovely duet and I was released as second counselor in the bishopric in anticipation of our move to Groningen.  It is hard to leave these members who we have come to know and love so much.

On Monday, we had the day mostly to ourselves, which we needed to prepare for our move.  We are anxious to help the new couple - the Olivers - as much as possible.  They will certainly be loved here in Belgium.  Things continue to improve in the stake and in the area.  Mechelen is definitely a city on the move with a historic past and a beautiful center.  Today, it is friendly and progressive.  We have really enjoyed our stay here.

On Tuesday, we attended our last Zone Class in the Antwerpen Zone.  We had great presentations by our two zone leaders, Elders Reese and Lott and by Sister Hanny, the Sister Training Leader.  The district leaders also led great workshops.  It was the best zone training yet.  Sister Caldwell prepared chicken over potatoes and carrots.  The missionaries loved it.

On Wednesday March 16, we headed back up to Groningen and attended zone conference in the Apeldoorn zone in Zwolle.  Sister Caldwell was delighted to meet Elder Oliphant and find out that Norman was his great uncle.  We enjoyed a second Zone Training day and also a wonderful meal prepared by Elder and Sister Hill.

On Thursday Sister Caldwell prepared dinner for the institute class that evening and we once again enjoyed the company of the great young people in the Groningen area.  It is certainly an enjoyable part of the missionary service here.

On Friday we left early in the morning to drive to Breda, Tilburg and Eindhoven to inspect missionary apartments.  Upon reaching Eindhoven, Sister Caldwell was thrilled to meet Elder Steele who had connections to her niece in Payson and her family in Missouri.  She also liked the fact that Elder Steele is 6'8".  Of course, we were also very happy to see Elder Drenth who is now serving there.
Sister Caldwell, Elders Steele and Drenth
On Saturday, Sister Caldwell performed a piano solo at the Antwerpen Stake Women's Conference.  The high priests served soup for lunch and did the dishes.  On the way we drove by our favorite chocolate shop, Sjolaa to pick up a dose of gourmet chocolate.  In the afternoon, we drove to Leuven so Sister Caldwell could give her last piano lesson to Monty Dixon, the son of the Bishop.  We also took a picture of the daffodils in bloom to show Elder Walker who helped plant them last year.










Saturday, March 5, 2016

Mechelen, Fireside and Senior Outing

On Monday, February 15, we had our entire district here (six elders and two sisters plus us).  We also had two sisters from Antwerpen who asked to join.  At the last minute, they were joined by two additional sisters and two elders.  Finally, we were joined by the two zone leaders.   Some of the missionaries used our iPads and MacBooks to email home.  We all had a delicious lunch of mussels and minestrone soup (and fresh baked rolls).  We all walked into the center of Mechelen to climb the St. Rombolt church tower.

Elders Drenth, Young, Morrow and van den Dungen Bille

Elders Bishesar and Mackay in the middle.  In the Turnhout
Branch they are known as Big Mac and Sprinkles.

Sisters Hansen and Lindsey surrounded by a gaggle of Elders
Lunch is almost over.  Not a lot left.
This tower is amazing with three carillon, each with 42 bells.  The bass carillon system has bells that weigh up to 17,000 pounds each.  Mechelen is home to the world's best carillon school and makes the best bells in the world.  The tower is 536 steps and two staircases.  There are six rooms you can rest in as you ascend (or descend).  From the top, you can see both Brussels and Antwerpen (if the weather is clear like it was on that day).  The did not finish the top of the tower, but instead, put a lovely skywalk there.  This is a glassed-in walkway that makes viewing safe and spectacular.

Before the ascent 
On top.

Now 536 steps down.
According to the history of Mechelen, in the evening of the night of 27-28 January 1687 an unusual event occurred.  There was a full moon and a low cloud cover.  A prominent citizen stepped out of a pub next to the tower and raised the alarm of a fire in the tower.  This roused the neighborhood and soon the whole city responded to the hue and cry of fire in the tower.  The city manager and mayor rushed to the scene and organized a bucket brigade to use the water from the nearby Dijle river to put out the fire.  Soon the buckets were being passed in a chain up the steep stairs from the tower.  Before they reached th top, however, they discovered that they had been fooled by the red glow of the moon shining through the low cloud layers.  Since the cloud cover was low enough to reach the clock room, they had also thought that smoke was coming from the tower.

The mayor said that this embarrassing incident should be kept secret, but with the natural sense of humor of Belgians, it soon spread throughout the country.  To this day, the people of Mechelen are known as the maneblussers (or moon extinguishers).  There is even a beautiful carved and painted wayfinder in the center of town that commemorates the event.  Our favorite chocolate shop, Sjolaa makes Mechelese Mantjes (or Mechelen Moons) as a specialty.

We are grateful to live in a beautiful town with a great sense of humor.  It is also fun to share this beautiful city with the Elders and Sisters who serve in the area.

Another fun tradition of Mechelen is Opsinjoorke.  This was a carved wooden doll representing a short fat man who drank too much.  On festive occasions, he was tossed into the air and caught with a linen cloth.  On July 4, 1775, when he was being tossed into the air, he was caught by a gentleman from Antwerp (Antwerpen in Flemish),  He claimed that he was trying to keep the doll from falling on its head, but the people in town thought that he was trying to steal it and he was beaten on the spot.  Since the people in Mechelen derided people from Antwerpen as being under too much Spanish influence they called them Senors.  From that time on the doll has had its present name.  The original is in the city museum, but there is a bronze casting by the city hall and a huge, climb-on version next to the cathedral.  This is also a favorite with the Elders and Sisters.





On Tuesday, we were blessed to visit Sister Annie D'Houwer along with Elders Drenth and van den Dungen-Bille.  Sister D'Houwer has been a member for 35 year and lives very close to the Lord.  When she prays, you feel that the windows and doors of heaven are open.  She is also a wonderful cook and neither of these two elders had the experience of visiting with her before since she lives in Grimbergen, a suburb of Brussels (our ward boundaries go south of Brussels).  She served amazing soup, followed by chicken and rice, witlof (Belgian endive), pork loin and potatoes, baked apples and topped off with ice cream and homemade chocolate sauce.  The elders never had it so good and they were amazed by what she served.  I told them it would probably be the best meal they ever eat on their missions (of course they are not married to Sister Caldwell like I am).

We had a lovely visit after the meal and Sister D'Houwer shared that on February 2, everyone in Belgium eats pannekoeken.  No one is so poor that they can't afford pannekoeken and Sister D'Houwer shared this little Flemish verse with us.


While we were with Sister D'Houwer, we received a telephone call informing us that the zone conference had to be moved from Antwerpen to Eindhoven.  This means that we had to arrange with Brother and Sister Canoodt from the Antwerpen Ward who are helping us to move the food preparation.  This is quite an adventure because the Eindhoven building is not as well equipped for food service and preparation.  Sister Caldwell planned to serve apple crisp.  This meant peeling, coring and slicing 90 apples.  Fortunately, we purchased a lovely, simple German machine (hand cranked) to speed up the process.  It also meant she had to bake the crisps in our tiny oven, one-at-a-time.

Notice the tie tucked out the way.

Brother and Sister Canoodt rolled with the punches and quickly figured out how to stage the meal by doing part of it in Antwerpen and the rest in Eindhoven.  They both took time off of work to perform this generous act of service.  They also organized things so that the meal was served in record time.


The combined Antwerp and Eindhoven Zones


At the end of zone conference we met briefly with President Bunnell and he informed us that we were being transferred to Groningen.  This is a great blessing for us both.  Sister Caldwell ended her first mission in Groningen and I started mine there.  I had the privilege of chipping down the piles (with hammer and chisel) that had been driven for the foundation of the chapel there on my first Saturday on my first mission.

We both love the city of Groningen.  It has two large universities and more than a quarter of the population is made up of students.  On the other hand, it is hard to leave our beloved Mechelen and the members in the Leuven Ward and Antwerpen Stake.

On Wednesday (February 17) morning, we received a surprise call from Earl Gibbs telling us that he was in Brussels.  We arranged to meet him after the Zone Conference and he treated us to a lovely dinner in the vicinity of the Grote Markt.  We also arranged to meet him on Saturday when he returned for a quick trip to Brugge.  It was wonderful to spend time with this great friend.

The dapper, if slightly cold looking Earl Gibbs.  Come back when it's warm!
On Sunday, February 21, we drove to Gouda for the Area Young Single Adult fireside and sacrament meeting.  I had to do the presentation at the fireside on the topic of love.  Sister Caldwell volunteered me for this assignment a couple of weeks ago and suggested that I try to track down the recording of Luacine Clark Fox about how she came to write, "Love One Another."  I was blessed to get in contact with Orval and Reuben Fox who generously shared this sacred record of their mother.

I was also fortunate to find a couple of cute cartoons made by students at arts universities (one in San Francisco and one in Paris).  I also found a great video on the Dutch Potato project made by the Church History Department a couple of years ago.  Right after WWII, the Dutch saints obtained land and seed potatoes and had a bounteous harvest.  The mission president suggested donating the entire harvest to the German saints who had suffered through the worst winter on record and the aftermath of the war.  The Dutch saints rose to the challenge and the following year also donated herring.  It is an amazing story and I felt grateful to have found the wonderful video.  You can find it here.

Dutch Potato Project

On Tuesday, February 23, our district again went to the Booghuys rest home in Leuven to sing for the residents there.  The workers there are so professional and caring, it is very impressive.  We try to do this once in a transfer (every six weeks).

On Friday, February 26, we had a senior activity.  We all met in Rotterdam and took a harbor boat tour.  We were surprised at the dramatic change in the harbor since our last visit.  They opened up a larger deepwater port nearby, so the old Rotterdam harbor is nowhere near as busy as it was before.  It was a lovely cruise and we enjoyed being together as senior couples.

After the harbor cruise we visited a windmill in the Rotterdam area by members of the Church.  President Bunnell had known the parents of the current operators when they lived in Schiedam 45 years ago.  This is a working mill and they do not do tours.  It was interesting to be able to climb all the way to the very top of the mill and see details of construction that you do not normally see.

President and Sister Bunnell
Elder and Sister Robison 
Elder and Sister Hill
President and Sister van der Put, the Hills and the Robison
The not so young anymore lovers
Elder and Sister Janssen 
Three cold sisters:  Caldwell, Janssen and van der Put
Sister Robison looks a bit cold as well 
Even the sturdy President van der Put looks a bit chilly 
At the entrance to the Mill 
Getting an explanation of milling 
The whole gang
Just so you can see we were not a random group of people.
Despite the pictures of fun, missionary work keeps going on.  We continue to work with and nurture less active members and investigators.  We have regular jobs in the ward.  Sister Caldwell teaches piano lessons every week.  We support the Young Single Adults in the ward and in the stake.  We also do a lot to encourage and support the younger missionaries.  They seem to like having substitute grandparents around and we certainly love them.  We are inspired by their commitment and their work.